“This isn’t about saying the perfect thing. It is about learning how to stay—with pain, with love, and with grief.”
Have You Ever Thought...
"Please... don't say that."
Maybe someone told you:
"They're in a better place."
"Everything happens for a reason."
"At least..."
"You'll get over it."
Although those words may have been spoken with good intentions, they often leave grieving hearts feeling unseen, misunderstood, and even more alone.
Please Don't Say That is an opportunity to change that.
We're inviting contributors to share not only the story of someone they love, but also the lessons they learned through grief, helping others understand what compassion truly looks like when words are difficult to find.
Share the story of someone who mattered deeply and preserve their memory in a published book.
Your words may help someone feel seen, less alone, and more understood in their own grief journey.
This anthology turns remembrance into impact through storytelling, education, and community support.
This anthology is open to contributors who have experienced loss and are ready to share a meaningful, respectful, and heartfelt story.
If you've ever left a conversation feeling more alone than before...
If you've ever heard words that were meant to comfort you but instead made your grief even heavier...
If you've ever wished people understood what someone truly needs after loss...
Then your story may be exactly what someone else needs to hear.
This anthology is for those who are ready to transform painful moments into powerful lessons that help others show up with greater compassion.

Who you are honoring
How their life impacted you
What grief taught you
What you wish people understood
How their legacy continues through you
The words that unintentionally made your grief harder
Each selected author will contribute one chapter of approximately 1,200 words and become part of a professionally published anthology.
Professional Editing
Professional Formatting
Worldwide Distribution
Author Spotlight
Launch Recognition
Author recruitment opens.
Final chapter submissions due.
Books targeted for delivery.
Official launch and fundraiser.
Supporting awareness, advocacy, registry education, and families navigating cancer-related challenges.
Honoring Miguel’s memory through legacy-based support and future educational opportunities.
Helping people learn how to speak with more care, compassion, and humanity after loss.
Please Don’t Say That Anthology | Created by Marilyn Morales | Published by BALM GLOBAL Publishing
Benefiting Izzy’s Legacy and the Miguel Soto Memorial Fund | Official Launch: October 24, 2026